The other day, someone at work laughed at a joke I’d heard three days earlier. I only just “got it,” and I couldn’t stop laughing—long after everyone else had moved on. That’s just one weird window into my life with Asperger’s as an adult. Most conversations about autism stop at childhood, but adulthood with Asperger’s? It’s a whole different ballgame—and a surprisingly underexplored one. Time to lift the curtain and get a little personal. Let’s talk about what it’s really like, quirks and all. 1. Emotions: Always Late to the Party Ever had that feeling when your emotions don't show up until everyone else has gone home? That's my daily reality. As someone with what was once called Asperger's syndrome (officially removed from the DSM in 2013), I experience emotions on a bizarre time-delay. It's like my feelings are stuck in traffic while everyone else'...
As someone who has navigated the autism spectrum personally, it's both heartbreaking and enlightening to see how many women and girls are overlooked in discussions about autism. Growing up, I often felt like a fish out of water, desperately trying to blend in, to the point that it would cause emotional eruptions later. Today, I want to share some hidden aspects of autism in females that deserve recognition. 1. The Art of Masking What is Masking? Masking is a coping mechanism often employed by autistic females. It involves concealing their true feelings and behaviors to fit into societal expectations. Why do they feel the need to do this? Mostly, it stems from a desire for acceptance. Many autistic women feel pressure to conform to social norms that don't reflect their authentic selves. Think of it as putting on a costume. They become actors in a play, striving to blend in and avoid judgment. But this act comes at a price. The emotional toll can be over...
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Why Exercise Matters for Girls on the Autism Spectrum
I've talked a lot about the benefits of exercise and autism in general, but I haven’t specifically addressed why physical activity is particularly important for girls on the autism spectrum. Let’s dive into that.
Dopamine Chasing and Gender Differences
When we think about autism and physical exercise, dopamine chasing comes to mind. Everyone, autistic or not, seeks dopamine hits. Boys often gravitate toward extreme sports and high-intensity activities, which provide substantial dopamine boosts. T...
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